Having a wedding party – yay or nay?
Having a wedding party – yay or nay?
Having a wedding party – yay or nay?
Having a wedding party – yay or nay?

Having a wedding party – yay or nay?

Photo: Teodora Tinc

 

One of the first thoughts of a glowing newly engaged couple is of the people they want to surround themselves with on their day. As the planning begins, a couple essentially build their own little collective of their nearest and dearest to form a wedding party – the chosen ones that will stand alongside them as they prepare for the new adventure that is marriage.

But what if you are conflicted about having wedding party? Are they absolutely a necessity? Is it more trouble than it’s worth?

While there are absolutely no rules – think your day, your way – we investigate the pros and cons of inviting your best buddies to stand alongside you on your wedding day.

 

Photo: Tess Follett

 

Yay – wedding parties for the win!

  • You have a posse of people that will be there to attend to your needs every step of the way. Be it attending dress fittings or selecting suits, lending a shoulder to cry on when someone is driving you up the wall, or being able to delegate the little jobs that will aid you in being as cool as a cucumber on your day. Your wedding party can be there every step of the way.
  • Your pre-wedding celebrations will always be a soiree to remember, but without the help of those significant others, you might notice the absence of a group of your nearest and dearest who can pull these events off for you. Be it sending invitations, or bringing you a Berocca the morning after, your supporting crew should know your ideal way to celebrate the lead-up to your wedding and become the perfect party planners, leaving you to be the star of the show.
  • Having a wedding party is a nice way of acknowledging those special people in your life who have been with you through the good times and sometimes the challenging times. It’s not often we get to show them how much they mean to us, so by asking them to form part of your wedding party is a public and lovely declaration that you value and love them.
  • From listening to the stresses of wedding planning, to giving advice and sending ideas on things that you might never would have thought to look for, brilliant wedding parties are indispensable.
  •  Your wedding day itself, with or without a wedding party, will be incredible. However, a special band of besties there while you get ready, make your way to your ceremony, and for all of the festivities thereafter – is unforgettable.

 

Photo: Tess Follett

 

Nay – keep it simple. 

  • Hello, budget blues. Wedding parties can also mean dipping into the funds that little bit further. From outfits to group gifts, play the numbers game and consider the financial impact.
  • Sometimes that pesky wedding party can cause more hassle than they’re worth – think many and varied opinions, the chance of drama and offending those who have not been asked…if you’re keen to keep things stress-free, having no wedding party could just be your thing. 
  • There are other ways you can acknowledge the important people in your life than making them stand in an outfit they haven’t chosen. Whether it be allocating them a role such as being a witness to your signing of the legal documentation, having them make the wedding cake, or acknowledging them in speeches, you can play to your friends and family’s strengths and get creative in being inclusive.
  • Timelines on your wedding day can be pretty tight, but without a wedding party, we can guarantee your timeline will run a whole lot more smoothly. No need to schedule hair and makeup, dedicating time for photos with groups of people, ensuring the aisle walk is timed to perfection! Things just got a whole lot more stress free!
  •  For some, the pressure of being in a wedding party is all too much. Some couple’s decide against a supporting cast for reasons including wanting guests to have fun at the wedding, without obligation or responsibility.

 

Photo: Fern & Stone Photography

 

Either way, with our without a formal title, your besties love you and will no doubt be filled with bliss at the sight of you marrying your favourite person. Go with your gut and make a decision with your significant other. Once again, your day, your way.

 

 




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