Real Wedding – Jason & Inha, Melbourne VIC
Jason and Inha’s majestic micro wedding is proof the number of guests in attendance is no indicator of elegance or emotion.
The pair had 11 cherished people present to witness their journey from long-distance love to lifelong love and – as the gallery by Love Memoir so stunningly depicts – it was every bit as stylish and moving as a large-scale soiree.
Inha was a vision of timeless bridal beauty, selecting a strapless, form-fitting Khya gown – styled with a slick bun and chic long-stem roses – for their simple registry ceremony.
Their official ‘I dos’ were celebrated with an intimate yet sophisticated long lunch that allowed love to be the centrepiece.
Scroll on to discover their insights and advice – including the learning that even those planning micro-weddings aren’t immune to the stress of the finer details.
The meeting.
We met through a few common friends who introduced us a couple of years back. As we were both based in different countries, we started out having long conversations through Facebook Messenger for about three months until we decided to see each other in person. Everything else fell into place the moment we saw each other.
‘The one’.
I knew Jason and I would work so well together because we have so much in common. Having a common ground in a relationship makes it a whole lot easier and less dramatic. We both enjoy doing so many things together. We have a connection that is exciting yet steady. What truly made us realise why we both find each other as the perfect half of a whole, is that we feel peace when we are together. It’s like a quiet, comforting calmness. I love him so deeply, and I can’t imagine ever finding this kind of love with anybody else. This is just rare, peaceful and safe.
The proposal.
He was assisted by our friends to make the day possible. I got home from work and was told there would be a birthday celebration for one of our friends and that we have to look nice for photos. Little did I know he was there waiting, standing in the corner of the room, teary-eyed with candles on the floor and a sign that read ‘Marry me?’. Our friends were all seated on the side, looking at me walking towards him while trembling, trying to soak it all in – it was the best day of my life that somehow led to an even better one!
Planning process.
We wanted our wedding to feel personal, relaxed and full of love. We focused on what really mattered to us and made sure everything felt true to who we are as a couple. Looking back, we’re so glad that we took the time to really enjoy each moment of the process. The day went by so quickly, so we’re glad we didn’t get too caught up in perfection and just let ourselves be in the moment.
We had a very simple and casual reception, just a little lunch gathering with our closest friends. There was small talk, fun photos and then we headed for a takeaway pizza and played fun games at the hotel. It was perfect.
The ceremony.
What I found useful were articles about what a wedding ceremony is actually like. The planning and process was really overwhelming and having access to social media really helped a lot. The ceremony was so simple and relaxed. I felt butterflies the whole time and my heart felt like it could burst from the happiness of finally having the day arrive!
The outfits.
I found it hard to pick the dress that I would wear, as there were just too many gorgeous options. I was overwhelmed. I was aiming for a classic, elegant look, so I went with a gown by Kyha. I also wanted to wear something sophisticated for the reception and got a Natalie Rolt dress for that.
Favourite moment.
Honestly, my favourite moment was just looking at him throughout the day and realising ‘this is really happening!’ – it was pure happiness.
Meaning of marriage.
For us, marriage is all about being true partners. It’s finding peace in each other and building a life filled with trust, laughter and understanding. Our love feels steady and safe, and marriage is simply choosing that love every single day – even when things get hard. It’s a way of honoring the connection we already have. A bond that feels rare, grounding and deeply ours.
Planning surprises.
Everything, actually! It never occurred to me that even the smallest details you have to put in time and effort into. Wedding planning, even for the micro type, is just as overwhelming as the rest. But it was all worth it. The happiest day of my life.
Words of wisdom.
Don’t sweat the small stuff. Things may not always go according to plan, but as long as you focus on what really matters – marrying the love of your life and celebrating with the people you care about – everything will fall into place.
JASON & INHA’S SUPPLIERS:
We feel so lucky and grateful to everyone who made our day so special. Our wedding was simple and relaxed, but full of love, laughter, and moments we’ll treasure forever.
We found our wedding team through a mix of online research. We spent hours browsing and scrolling through Facebook and Instagram, and reading reviews to find the suppliers who truly resonated with us. Social media was really helpful; it allowed us to see their work, their style, and even their personalities. By the time we reached out to them, we already felt a connection, and working with each of them felt so natural and special. They made the whole process feel light and stress-free, and we couldn’t imagine our day without them. They added so much love and energy to the day. We’re so grateful for their incredible talent and the passion they put into their work.
JASON & INHA’S SUPPLIERS:
Ceremony location: Old Treasury Building
Reception venue / location: Bossley
Getting ready venue: The Hotel Windsor
Photography: Love Memoir
Content creator: Melbourne Muse
Styling & florist: Minji Goli
Hair & make-up: Stephany Morales
Ceremony dress: Kyha
Reception dress: Natalie Rolt
Getting ready outfit: Robe Homebodii , Top/Skirt Eliya The Label
Veil / headwear: Dove Grey Bridal
Shoes: Dune London, Alias Mae
Rings: Uniform Black Store , Austen and Blake
Suit & tie: Oscar Hunt
Cake: Brito Confeitaria
Stationery / Signage: Eventii and Co
